Practicing self love and self lovin' is so important to discovering your identity and your sexuality. This post on Archer
is one person's journey to discovering her queerness through wanking. It's a personal story but it's so similar to stories we hear time and time again.
There is no shame in playing with yourself. There's no shame in knowing what you love and hate sexually. There's no shame in self discovery - be it sexual or otherwise.
"Buying the vibrator freed me from all of this. Following its purchase was a few weeks of immaculate joy, with both the frequency and frenzied enthusiasm of a teenaged boy stereotype. One night I actually cancelled social plans to go home and masturbate. Not exactly a high point in my life, but truthfully, not the lowest."
For those of you who are new to the self lovin' game, this comic
by Oh Joy Sex Toy is a great lil guide to masturbation for babes with vulvas.