Women are multifaceted creatures. Every last one of us has the potential to embody all sorts of roles and personality traits, and if you’ve been feeling stuck in a rut, maybe it’s time to explore some of the parts of yourself that don’t come out to play very often! While not everyone automatically thinks of sex when they think of Halloween, why not take every opportunity you can think of to celebrate your sexuality?
If you are typically a conservative dresser or a strong, professional career woman who works hard to keep your image polished and serious, Halloween can give you the perfect excuse to play (but not that you need one!). It can be a lot of fun to play with feminine, sexy, and flirtatious lingerie and accessories. Or maybe you tend to dress femininely all of the time, but want to take it to an over the top level with some extra touches. Disarm your partner by trick or treating at the bedroom door in a pair of sexy stockings, pasties, and a mask. Throw them for a loop in the best possible way, and while you’re at it, vary up your sexual repertoire and try something new, whether it’s a different sexual position or the introduction of a new toy into your pleasurable play.
Not into lingerie and lace? Or maybe you are most of the time and you’d like to see what it feels like to take your sexual power in another direction… Gender play can open up whole new worlds of possibilities. Just like sexual preferences, gender is a very fluid thing! We all possess both feminine and masculine traits that fall anywhere along a very long (and sometimes changing over the course of a lifetime) spectrum. For some people the body parts issued at birth don’t match up with the way we feel inside all or most of the time. For other people, it is more subtle, and although we may not wish to change our gender identity full-time, we might want to explore it with our partners. The good news is that it is all good. No matter where you fall on the gender spectrum, exploration can only enhance your life and harms no one. You might choose to play with it a bit in the bedroom on Halloween only to find that it is something that both you and your partner enjoy more than you could have ever imagined. We at MissX believe that you should feel free to explore gender play any day of the year, but if you’ve felt too shy, what better time than a day when everyone is trying on new characters and personas to give it a try?
With all of the fun you’ll be having this Halloween, you might want to turn off your porch light so that all of the little ghosts and goblins haunting your street don’t make an appearance at your front door in their quest for candy. Either that or save your own sweet treats for later, when the adorable costume-glad beggars are safely home with their haul, because nothing could be more frightful than a doorbell that won’t stop ringing when you’re on the verge of an orgasm!